Dependent arising, or interdependence is quite prominent in Buddhism, where everyone and everything is in constant flux and constantly in relationship with each other. Things just are not in the nature of being solid, concrete entities. Rather, all the elements of which we are composed affect the world, while the things in our environment affect us. What we think and do affects other people, and what they think and do affect us. We are unable to take care of ourselves completely without assistance since most of us cannot grow our food, make our clothes, or build our shelter.

To explore this constant interrelationship, we can ask ourselves, “How do I affect others? What can I do to increase their happiness and their wellbeing? How can I contribute in a positive and useful way to their benefit?” Hear themes of love and compassion feature prominently because our contribution to the world will be very positive if our body, speech, and mind act out of loving and compassionate attitudes.

Making a positive contribution does not mean everything or everyone will turn out how we want them to be. We can feel good about our motivation and rejoice in contributing, regardless of the results, which are subject to many causes and conditions beyond our control. This kind of attitude helps us remain more peaceful as we relate to things and people in our life, including ourselves because we have happy and positive motivations for doing the things we do. Developing our mind and heart is a great way to repay the kindness of sentient beings because the more we are able to act with kind, clear, and wise motivations, the more beneficial our actions become in the short and long term.

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